Friday, November 14, 2014

15 Things That Made Me Fall In Love with Paris

I grew up surrounded by French language and Mediterranean culture, so my obsession with the city of Paris has naturally been a lifelong ordeal. Ever since I can remember, I've been fantasizing and dreaming about the city of light... the Eiffel Tower, the fashion, the patisseries, and the day I would finally get to experience it all for myself.

Well, it was everything I've ever imagined about it, but yet still somehow managed to totally wow me. The Monday I arrived on a Eurostar train from London was just as I had always pictured it would be: grayish skies, chilly weather, and an air of excitement. Each day I had a full agenda of things to see and do, yet I couldn't help but just slowly strolling each street, wandering around in awe and fantasizing about the centuries of famous history that took place in this magical place. And when I looked up and saw the Eiffel Tower, I squealed just like a little girl.

I had dreamt of that day and that very moment my whole life. All my hard work in school and within my career was all to be able to travel to places my soul is calling me to... And Paris was always at the very top of my long list. It exceeded every expectation I had built, which says a lot. In fact, it made me incredibly emotional at times to witness such beauty and to be in the midst of such an amazing historic place. I was utterly overwhelmed, a powerful reaction which has only happened to me in one other place among all my travels and it was no way near this extreme. I can now say I know what it feels like to fall head over heels in love with a city. Here is a list of 15 simple things that explain why Paris captured my heart:


1. The way you can't walk for more than 5 mins (and that's pushing it) without encountering something gorgeous and captivating, and worthy of stopping to admire. 

2. The uniform style of all buildings with exquisite details is so elegant and enchanting. I love that this city takes pride in its aesthetics, and I'm a huge fan of gothic architecture so my breath was taken away at virtually every corner. There are many beautiful places in the world, but I'm not sure anything will ever compare.

3. The way the city lacks the tackiness found in the states. There's no chain restaurants on every corner. What we know as "mom and pop shops" are the core of the city. Unique boutiques and cafes line every street. It has not lost its old world charm over to corporate greed, and seemingly never will. 

4. The fact that a woman can breast feed her baby in the middle of a busy cafe while she sips her coffee and no one even notices. No one is uptight or worried about being politically correct. I guess that's a European thing, but I love it.

5. The skies. Always heard things about "Paris skies" and now I know why. There are no words to describe them. The clouds seem to simply hug the city a certain way. 

6. The language. It's just... SO sexy.

7. The way people take their dogs everywhere with them. Don't know why, but this just made me smile every time I saw a woman stopping into a boulangerie with her little posh dog by her side. 

8. The public transportation system is very efficient. There are metro stations everywhere and it's very easy to figure out and use, although it is quite dirty and the city has a huge problem with the homeless sleeping on the trains and urinating everywhere... Ugh. It's the ONE bad thing I did find about the city.

9. The food. Crepes, croissants, baguettes, and quiche for breakfast; delicious ham and cheese sandwiches for lunch, and savory sauces with dinner entrees. Lots of cheese and bread is right up my alley. Everything I had was totally delicious.

10. The Parisian lifestyle. The way they're never too busy to sit outside at a cafe and talk, even in the cold. The way they walk around eating a baguette yet remain so thin (didn't see hardly any overweight people amazingly). The way they really are just as stuck up as everyone says (I know this is one negative aspect that many people don't like about Paris... However I find it amusing. At least they have good reason to be stuck up. That is what in fact makes them The French. They're just effortlessly, inherently COOL.).

11. The attractiveness of the general public. You constantly see beautiful men and chic women everywhere.  

12. The diversity of countless cultures found in this metropolis, yet the way the French spirit remains strongly dominant.

13. The history. The French have always been so relevant throughout world history, and are well known for their spirit of revolution and the great influence they've had on the rest of the world. I loved how much they embrace and cherish their own history. It's apparent from the amazing efforts made to preserve the very old and historic monuments, cathedrals, statues, etc. that are found EVERYWHERE. 

14. The element of romance. It really is the city of love. Whenever I caught young lovers holding hands or kissing, it was more genuine and passionate than what I see back home. You can just feel it in the air. It's beautiful!

15. The bohemian flavor that is so much apart of this city and its history lives on. Paris has always been known for its considerable contributions in art, music, fashion, film, literature, and philosophy. I absolutely love that aspect. 

Sunday, September 7, 2014

The most important purchase of your [travel] life



I wanted to start off this series by discussing the topic of purchasing luggage and travel packs, the most important purchase for travel lovers like myself. What better way to begin than by sharing a great experience I had today. In preparation for my upcoming trip to Europe, I needed to buy a really good travel backpack to get me through 5 cities in 3 weeks. I did a lot of research on the best brands for travel gear and realized it would be vital to visit a store and try a few out for myself. So today, my mom accompanied me on a visit to the great outdoors store, REI.

I have visited this store before for buying spinning shoes, but today I was impressed by their huge inventory of outdoor and travel equipment, as well as their knowledgeable staff and excellent service. This is a place I HIGHLY recommend for anyone going on a big trip, or for those who participate in outdoor activities, sports, etc. They even have an excellent lifetime rewards program. This is as good as it gets!

I went in anticipating that I’d try a few brands of backpacks out and get a general idea. Not only did I get to do that, but I picked a great one out and the salesman showed me every single bell and whistle on this bad boy, put it on me, strapped me in, and even packed it with weights so I could get a real feel of how it would be to carry 30lbs of gear on my back. This was eye opening and I am SO thankful because I realized how much I will only be screwing myself by packing a lot of stuff like I usually do. So I cannot stress how important this may be to anyone else looking to travel extensively like me. These people at REIs are not only experts on this stuff, but many of them travel pretty frequently too so they know firsthand. They also do not make commissions on sales so they are totally honest. I seriously couldn’t thank our salesman enough. He was truly awesome.

We settled on the Osprey Porter Travel 65Pack, which is a nice size for a taller/stronger girl like myself that will fit 65 liters of items. I probably would not recommend this for shorter or smaller girls, but it seems like a PERFECT fit for me. The most important features are that it:

-          Is water resistant, so it can last through a small amount of rain or moisture, and will not damage or wet your items inside. This is important to consider because if your pack is NOT water resistant or waterproof, any water WILL wet your clothes inside and lead to a mess.
-          Had padded shoulder straps and additional straps for the chest and hips for extra support
-          Is expandable so it can truly stretch to hold  a lot and then can be squeezed by the two straps in the front to condense it down  quite a bit
-          Had a lot of pockets and compartments, including one at the bottom for shoes and one on the top for easy access to items of frequent use or need
-          Is a durable, quality fabric that will literally last FOREVER
-          Comes in many colors, so this bright red/orange color will be easily identifiable
-          Has zippers that can easily be locked
-          Is easy to strap on and unstrap off, for easy wear and mobility and good fit, which is important when carrying a lot of weight on your back

For me personally, this one is perfect. That is only because I do not mind checking the bag since I am only taking a roundtrip flight to and from Europe, and for the rest of my travel will utilize trains to get around within the European cities I’m visiting. For those who will fly more frequently or do not like to check their bags, you definitely want to invest in a smaller pack, such as the 46 liter pack which is small enough to be checked. This is also a better size for smaller girls like I mentioned. Also, the cost of my particular choice is $150, which is exactly what I wanted to spend. Some packs may cost up to $300. This is an investment that will last you many years and can make or break your experience when traveling abroad, so in my opinion, you don’t want to go too cheap and end up with something that isn’t practical or won’t last. Generally, both the REI and Osprey brands are reliable quality with many good reviews. But I would definitely recommend reviewing what other users have shared on Amazon reviews to decide for yourself.

I had a great experience overall with the gentleman who showed me the ins and outs of this pack, including every pocket, compartment, strap, and latch. I cannot stress how valuable this was for me, as I was tempted to just order it online and then would not have truly understood how to use it (packing it, fitting it how it’s supposed to, ensuring weight is evenly distributed, etc). Therefore, I really wanted to emphasize that buying this type of thing is always better in person.

In addition, the salesman had a few other great recommendations and product suggestions that I wanted to share. He stressed that bringing 18 days’ worth of clothes would ensure a miserable time in carrying my pack. Real backpackers and travel experts tend to pack a few LIGHT items that can be mixed and matched, and will be washed and reused the entire time. This is something I have heard numerous times throughout my research. So as much as I want to look fly and bring a ton of cute outfits with me, I realize it’s just not practical on this type of trip.



I ended up buying a travel clothesline (top right in photo above) for about $10 that will clip in almost any shower type to dry clothes.  I also bought some travel wash for my clothes (bottom right in photo above) so that I can wash my clothes in the bathroom sink of my hotels. This is something I am truly not used to having to do while on vacation, but I really believe it will come in handy and will be crucial in packing light. 

Another thing I bought was some good “walking socks” (left in photo above, left). I never even knew these existed until now. These socks are made with some good padding to reduce any pain caused by tons of walking while sightseeing. They are also as thin as possible and designed to eliminate any odor or sweating so they can be worn for multiple days if needed. They were kind of pricey at $16 a pair, but I figure 2-3 pairs will definitely come in handy, since I plan to be on my feet pretty much the entire trip.

So after my visit to REI, I feel a lot better and more prepared for my Europe trip, and am more excited than ever that I will finally be going soon.

In addition to this experience today, I wanted to share my recent experience on buying actual luggage. I have been searching for a new suitcase for many months. This is something that is NOT easy to find when you’re as picky as me! So I have literally lost count of how many stores and websites I’ve visited during my hunt. Again, I think it’s much more ideal to purchase this type of item in person so you can really inspect it and know exactly what you’re buying, which unfortunately online shopping cannot offer. I believe luggage is an investment for those of us who travel a lot, and therefore is something you don’t want to skimp on too much. At the same time, luggage is NOT meant to last forever, and will inevitably get messed up when it’s thrown around throughout airports, and therefore isn’t something you want to spend a TON on. I just can’t see myself spending thousands on designer luggage that will get scratched up, torn up and will need to be replaced within a few years. Therefore, this is the criteria I was looking for in my luggage:

-          A hard shell: I had never bought this type before as I was loyal to fabric suitcases…. However, these have become insanely popular in the last few years due to its increased durability in being thrown around by baggage handlers. My soft suitcases have gotten torn the hell up in just a couple years and have also got soaking wet in the rain, which damaged my items inside. So despite the disadvantage that hard-shell luggage does get scratched up, I was looking to give it a try.
-          Light-weight: I tend to push that 50lb weight limit on baggage a lot of times, so I need as much of that weight to be from my actual items rather than from the luggage itself. Some larger suitcases can weigh up to 15lbs, leaving you with less weight for your belongings. Therefore, I was hoping for something under 10lbs.
-          Colorful: I cannot stand waiting at the luggage carousel and seeing 90% of the bags being black and plain, so every single person thinks it’s theirs. I think this leads to a higher chance of someone else “accidentally” picking up your luggage, plus it’s harder to spot your own. So I always aim for some bright color or pattern that will make my bag easier to distinguish as my own.
-          Compartments: I am a sucker for organization. So I was hoping to find something with at least a few zipper and straps to better organize and hold my stuff.
-          Four wheels: This makes life a LOT easier when your luggage has smooth mobility with four high-quality wheels. You will know exactly what I mean if you’ve ever had one of your wheels break or keep getting jammed.
-          A price range of $80-120. I believe this is reasonable for a large size luggage that is good quality and long-lasting. Some can be up to $500 and I just refuse to pay that much for something I do not anticipate lasting over 5-10 years at my rate of travel anyway. 

After many trips all over the damn place (mostly multiple TJ Maxx, Ross, Marshall’s in different cities as these are my favorites stores that offer a variety of luggage brands at a great bargain), I finally found my baby. I found her at the TJ Maxx in Laurel, Maryland. I saw her from across the store, and it was love at first sight. She is a hard-shell beauty with a glossy pale peach cover, a unique color that I have never seen in other luggage and I feel totally fits me and my personality… peach is actually one of my favorite colors! She has 4 wheels, multiple compartments and straps inside, an easy to use and smooth handle; and cost only $90. Also, she weighs about 9lbs, which is impressive for a hard shell suitcase. So she absolutely fit every one of my criteria! Also, she is an “It” suitcase, a British brand has gotten a great reputation for being affordable, practical and good quality luggage of all types. Oh, and yes, she IS a she. I could NOT be happier.


Isn’t she pretty?!

The real test was when I finally put her to use on an actual trip. I flew Southwest to Miami a few weeks ago and she held up very well. She got scratched up pretty badly, which I had expected. However, I wiped the scuffs and scratches down with rubbing alcohol and most of them went away quite easily. As you can see in the pictures above, she still looks brand new. This luggage is sure to get me through many trips over the next few years, as I will be traveling back and forth to Hawaii, and visiting God knows where else. So I could not be happier. Waiting until I found the right luggage to make that purchase was definitely worth it!

So the moral of the story is, buying luggage and travel packs is not easy. It definitely takes time and patience. It will require shopping around and is NOT something you can just buy on an impulse or without some good legwork involved. Decide what criteria is important to you, ask for help by the pros when you need it, and do not give up until you find it. And you will!

To travel is to live!

During my 27 years of life, I have traveled over 70,000 miles by air alone so far, not to mention the MANY other trips by bus, train and car. I still have over 10,000 miles of travel left in the remaining months of 2014. I am officially moving 5,000 miles away to Oahu, Hawaii in the beginning of 2015. And in case you're wondering, yes, I am 100% nerdy enough to calculate this shit. The point is. I like to travel and for my age, I have definitely done quite a bit so far. 

Within the last couple years, I’ve been doing a considerable amount more traveling. The main reason for this is because I took care of my grandma for several years before she passed in January 2013, and it made me realize how unbelievably precious and short life really is. I made a vow to myself to make every day count and that by any means necessary, I would go after my true passion in life, which is to travel and explore new cities, countries and cultures. The loss of the most important person in my life was devastating and is still hard to deal with almost two years later. However, in a way, it’s really become inspiration and motivation for me to live life to the fullest, even if just for my grandma and to make her proud.

So I just go for it. I decide where I want to go, and somehow I make it happen. It doesn’t have to cost a lot or be a huge deal either. Once you begin traveling on a frequent basis, it actually becomes a quite simple routine. If I don’t say so myself, I have become quite a pro at booking cheap trips, planning, packing, and the entire travel/flight/airport ordeal. So I've decided to dedicate this blog to my passion by sharing my experiences and travel tips. I am constantly researching travel info and reading excellent travel blogs written by real experts and nomads who make my travels look elementary. Plus I have gained some good experience myself so far. So due to popular demand, I’d like to put it all together and shade if here!

To start, I want to address the MANY inquiries I have been receiving from very curious people. I seriously cannot even count how many times I’ve gotten questions like “How do you afford it?” “Do you have a hook-up or something?” “Which website do you use?” “Who is your travel agent?” “Can you help me plan/book a trip?” This kind of baffles me since while I have been getting around and traveling about once a month, I travel no way near as much as REAL jet-setters and world travelers. I'm a peon in the scheme of things. So I'm a little surprised at these inquiries. I have even had people ask me some of these questions WHILE I am on a trip, as if I should stop my vacation and help them with theirs. Kind of blows my mind.

For the record… This may sound kind of mean, but I need to make this clear. I am NOT a travel agent, nor do I use one that I can recommend. I am not here to book your trips or plan your vacations. Sorry! I spend a LOT of time researching my plans and monitoring prices for my own trips. I have a full-time job just like everyone else, so I simply cannot do that for others, and can't even imagine how others expect someone else to anyway. However, there are numerous travel agencies and online resources available for you. I am more than happy to share my tips/advice, and I don’t mind helping people out (which is what I'm hoping to do here) but this is something you have to do yourself and will get better with in time, just as I did!

Listen. There is NO magic tricks or secrets to this thing. If you want to plan epic and unforgettable trips, it takes time and effort. But it doesn’t have to be as complex as people think it is. If you really want something, you make it happen. If you set your mind on going somewhere, you will find a way. Simple as that. You can put it off and keep saying “one day I will go there” or “someday when I have more money” but guess what? That may never come. Before you know it, you will be older or in a situation where you're unable to do those things, and will live to regret it. That is why I decided to change my approach and attitude, and I realized how feasible and affordable travel can be if you really want it bad enough.

So for those who share my passion for travel and want to know what advice I have to offer, this is for you. I have quite a few helpful tricks and pieces of advice I’ve picked up along the way that may be able to help or assist others. Stay tuned!

Thursday, July 31, 2014

My Costa Rica Experience



During a visit to Costa Rica, you will hear and see the phrase “pura vida” everywhere you go. It’s all over t-shirts and souvenirs, and is even used in place of “you’re welcome” by the locals. It translates to “pure life” in English and after a 6 day visit in this beautiful country, I can truly understand why this is their official motto. Costa Rica is a place where once can truly experience PURE life in every form. Whether you’re looking for thrilling adventures, wildlife encounters, a busy city setting, or a relaxing beach getaway, here you can find it all. I was blessed enough to spend my 27th birthday on a fantastic vacation in Costa Rica and it was a trip I will never forget!

A friend and I traveled to the Central American country via a terrible first experience with Spirit Airlines (which I will NEVER ever fly again). When we arrived, we were greeted at San Jose airport by a private driver. We told him we were kind of hungry so he took us to a cute little fruit stand that sold sweets and made delicious fresh smoothies. Nearby, we got our first dose of wildlife with beautiful red parrots in a tree and several huge crocodile lurking in a swamp. When we finally arrived at our hotel in the touristy beach town of Manuel Antonio on the west coast, we were amazed. Our room was all glass and authentic Costa Rican wood, with breathtaking views of the jungle and the Pacific Ocean. We were in awe!





I never really like staying in tourist areas or resorts where all the restaurants and shops are overpriced and catered to Americans, but I still enjoyed Manuel Antonio. The people are charming and the hotel put us smack in the middle of all the wildlife we could ever ask for. We saw a sloth up close and personal, many monkeys, toucans, and even some small little fuzzy creature we never even got to identify. Oh and countless bugs that were way too damn big. We also had the pleasure to be paid a visit by a white-faced monkey on our balcony one morning and another in the hallway luring us down the steps. It was truly awesome. The beach in this area was also very beautiful and the views around us were stunning in every way. 











On the day of my birthday, we spend the morning on a hike through the Manuel Antonio National Park with an excellent and very knowledgeable guide, who was able to spot and give us details on many animals, including sloths, monkeys, deer, snakes, hummingbirds, tarantulas, lizards, raccoons, bats, and grasshoppers that were bigger than my freaking hand. He even used his binoculars to get some incredible close shots of the wildlife for us, including an amazing picture of a monkey fast asleep in a tree with her baby cuddled up on her chest. What impressed me most is how the country of Costa Rica makes it a HUGE priority to protect wildlife and preserve nature. After all, they are known worldwide for their forests, all made possible by extreme ecological conservation efforts. Much of the tourism industry that drives the Costa Rican economy is centered around their dense jungles and lush rainforests, so this is a wise tactic and smart investment by the government.



The next day, we did not want to leave Manuel Antonio, but we made a very long and grueling 5-hour trip through many windy mountain roads to the volcano town of Arenal. Thank God for the very caring and kind drivers we had because some of this travel was truly miserable. But we survived and were happy to arrive safely at the destination. Our next extreme adventure was world-famous zip-lining through the Costa Rican jungle with unbelievable views of the volcano. This is something I was freaking out about for weeks, but it honestly ended up being the BEST experience of my life and the most fun I’ve ever had. It was totally exhilarating in every way and I did not want it to end! Out of the 8 lines we completed, one was a half-mile long and lasted almost one minute at over 50 MPH. And I loved every second of it! The staff was very professional and helpful, and made the experience even more enjoyable.




Our final adventure was a 2 mile hike through the rainforest on the “Hanging Bridges” tour, which was even more interesting due to the fact that it was raining a lot that day. We had to pass through several suspension bridges that connect one side of the forest to the other, the highest of which was 180 feet up in the air! This was pretty fun to me because although the bridges definitely swayed from side to side and were kind of scary, they were still pretty sturdy and safe. 






Afterwards, we stopped and had lunch at a cute little restaurant on the way back. Unfortunately, I was never truly wowed by any of the food I ate, but then again Costa Rica isn’t really known for its food. It was good, just nothing to write home about. The best meals were in local restaurants, which are called "Sodas". After the hanging bridges tour and a nice nap, my friend and I explored the many pools at our hotel including the “hot springs” pools and made some friends with a cute young couple from California. We had dinner in the nearby town of La Fortuna, a $5 plate of local favorites, including chicken in tomato sauce, ripe plantains, potatoes, rice, black beans, salad, and a fried egg. Afterwards, we had a lovely time at a nearby coffee-shop enjoying some sweets and delicious local coffee.






As always, a highlight for me whenever I travel is meeting the locals and learning about their ways of life, as well as other travelers from all over the world. I could really appreciate the simple life in this beautiful country, which enjoys a much better standard of living and higher development rate than other Central American countries. This is largely due to Costa Rica’s lack of military, which allows government resources to go towards tourism and environmental causes. While I am definitely familiar with most Hispanic and Latino cultures, I must admit that this was one I did not have much experience with or knowledge of due to the limited exposure to Ticos (local term for Costa Rican), who do not immigrate or visit the US very much it seems. Overall, I was impressed and fell in love with the people’s kindness and hospitality, as well as all the unforgettable things this country has to offer. We were totally surrounded by nature and beauty everywhere we went and it really puts things into perspective. It was a great vacation and I applaud the travel agency I used to book the trip, Anywhere Costa Rica, who truly ensured every detail was taken care of and very little effort was required on our parts.

If you’re thinking about where to go for a trip full of adventure and excitement for a decent price, Costa Rica is definitely a great place to consider which I would absolutely recommend. It’s somewhere I’ve always wanted to go, especially the amazing zip-lines they’re famous for, and I am so thankful I got to experience! It was definitely the true definition of “PURA VIDA”.

Here are some things to know ahead of time in case you do decide to visit the beautiful nation of Costa Rica.

Pros of visiting Costa Rica:
-          Most of the locals who work in tourism speak very good English and therefore communication barriers are minimal in most cases. It was so good that I was actually extremely lazy with my Spanish. However, their Spanish is also a lot more understandable and clear than many other dialects in other countries.
-          It’s incredibly safe. Everywhere you go, you will see tourists freely wandering and mingling with locals, who embrace and welcome visitors unlike other places. Crime, especially against tourists, is very seldom.
-          While the local currency, Colones, is quite easy to convert, the US Dollar is widely accepted everywhere, making paying and tipping very easy and convenient.
-          There is an unlimited amount to do and explore. I literally do not think there is anyone on the planet who could not find something they love and enjoy here. From both the Pacific and Caribbean coasts to mountain towns, villages, forests, and urban settings, there’s something for everyone.
-          It’s pretty cheap in comparison to many other vacations. I spent far less than anticipated on incidentals, such as food, tips for guides and drivers, and souvenirs. Booking the trip was also a very good deal for all that was included. Again, I highly recommend Anywhere Costa Rica who will customize a package based on your preferences.
-          Close encounters with the wildlife was simply priceless. This is something anyone should enjoy and appreciate, and may not get a chance to in most other places.

Cons of visiting Costa Rica:
-          The $29 exit tax that we had to pay at the airport to leave the country, which no one told us about. A little ridiculous.
-          I did NOT like the airport experience at all. It was an awful way to end a great trip. The airport itself is one of the nicest I’ve ever been to, but the staff is so unlike everyone else we had encountered during our stay- totally rude. They also check your bags once AGAIN before you board the plane and don’t allow you to even bring a bottle of water with you to drink on the plane, even if you purchased it AFTER security within the airport… Something I have never seen before in any other country or airport.
-          The bumpy rides were honestly pretty rough. While most of the roads are pretty well-developed, on those that weren’t so smooth, it was made worse by what appeared to be the lack of shocks on most vehicles (or something… I know nothing about cars but I do know that passengers are not supposed to be flying up into the air for every bump and dip). As with most other countries, they drive like nut jobs so transportation can be quite uncomfortable and uneasy. I will never complain about American drivers again.
-          Again, the food was OK. Most of the hotel restaurants grossly overcharge for their interpretation of American dishes. You have to venture into town to get an authentic meal. Costa Rican food is like traditional Hispanic food but nothing too special or delicious from what I experienced. As many know, I am a foodie and I plan entire trips based on food, so this was disappointing although other parts greatly made up for it.
-          I know this is petty but the bugs were CRAZY here. They literally fly all over you and bite you the whole time. As an absolute bug hater, this was hard to deal with. They were even in our hotel and I almost died when I found a spider in my bed one night. I know it’s inevitable in the jungle areas we stayed in, and was a small price to pay for the great wildlife that came with it. But. Still. Oh. Emm. Gee.